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Hullo folks.
This is a bit of an odd message, so you'll bear with me I hope.
Some minutes ago, a contribuor to our SC accused me of being a liar - stating that I am not a native speaker of English. This is tantamount to saying that I have posted a fictitious profile on this site.
I wonder how any of you would feel if someone were to say this to you, when you earn your living due to the fact that you are a native speaker.

But what I have found more worrying is that this same person states that apparently many of you are unhappy with my manner of moderating, that I am aggressive, rude and I think the word was "bolshy".
I'm sorry if I have given this impression and I am doubly sorry that those of you who have had a problem with this have not contacted me directly, but have grumbled amongst yourselves.

I would like to say that if anyone does have a problem, pls write to me directly and we'll try and sort it out, but also pls remember that lots of us write quickly, as time is at a premium, that there is never (on my part) any intention of offending or being rude (those of you who know me personally will vouch for that).
I simply bash out my messages, trying to get straight to the point in order not to take up too much of your time.
And, of course, despite being accused of lying about being British, I am, in fact, British, and I have a very British sense of humour, so my attempts to be funny may not always be successful.
I would be pleased to hear your comments (not too harsh on me please, but constructive!)
Thanks for your time
Angela
Moderator